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Why Blame is a Losing Strategy in Relationships (And What to Do Instead)
Blame is tempting. It gives us the illusion of control without actually requiring us to look inward. But here’s the hard truth: blame is a losing strategy in relationships.
Taking Ownership in Your Relationship: Why Focusing on What You Can Change Matters Most
When we feel stuck in relationship struggles, it’s easy to zero in on what our partner is doing wrong—or not doing at all.
Meet Sharon Nolan: Our New Client Care Coordinator
We’re thrilled to welcome Sharon Nolan to our team as our new Client Care Coordinator!
Understanding Codependency in Friendships
Friendship is crucial, providing companionship, support, and belonging. But when these bonds become codependent, they can hinder personal growth and independence.
Book Review: Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
If you’ve ever found yourself trying to “save” someone you love—or if your happiness feels tied to fixing or managing others—Melody Beattie’s Codependent No More is essential reading.
Co-Dependency in Relationships: Signs, Patterns, and How Couples Therapy Can Help
Learn the signs of co-dependency in relationships, what happens if only one partner changes, and how couples therapy can help restore balance and connection.
Book Review: The Anxious Generation – Is Technology Really to Blame?
Is the rise in anxiety, depression, and social disconnection among today’s youth the result of smartphones and social media?
The Silent Treatment & Stonewalling: Why We Do It and How to Stop
Have you ever been in an argument with your partner and suddenly shut down? Maybe you withdrew completely, stopped responding, or gave them the cold shoulder for hours (or even days).
Bringing Home Pura Vida: Lessons from Costa Rica
I recently returned from a trip to Costa Rica, where I was introduced to a phrase that captures the essence of life there: Pura Vida. Translated literally, it means “pure life,” but in reality, it carries a much deeper meaning.
Grounding Through the Five Senses: A Simple Mindfulness Practice to Reduce Stress
We’ve all had those moments when our thoughts race, anxiety takes over, or emotions feel overwhelming. In times like these, mindfulness can be a powerful tool to bring us back to the present.
How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty
Do you ever say yes when you really want to say no? Do you feel responsible for other people’s emotions, even at the expense of your own well-being?
Your Partner’s Feelings Matter More Than the Facts—Here’s Why
The truth is, when it comes to love, conflict, and connection, objective reality doesn’t matter nearly as much as how each person experiences the situation.
Welcome Stefanie to KKP!
We are excited to introduce the newest member of our team, Stefanie (she/her), Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying). Stefanie brings a warm, collaborative, and compassionate approach to therapy.
Emotional Immaturity in Relationships: Why It Happens and How to Move Forward
Have you ever felt like you’re in a relationship with someone who shuts down, lashes out, or avoids difficult conversations? Or maybe you’ve noticed these patterns in yourself.
Book Review: How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving by David Richo
David Richo’s How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving is a profound and insightful exploration of what it truly means to love with emotional maturity.
Groundhog Day in Your Relationship? How to Break Free from Negative Cycles
Have you ever felt like your relationship is stuck on repeat—having the same argument over and over with no resolution? It’s like your own version of Groundhog Day.
Mindful Intentions Practice for the New Year
This practice combines gratitude, intention-setting, and mindful breathing—three pillars of mindfulness that ground you in the present moment while aligning you with your values.
Why January Can Be Tough on Relationships—and How to Navigate It Together
The new year often brings with it a mix of emotions—hope for a fresh start, pressure to set resolutions, and for many couples, an unwelcome sense of strain in their relationship.
How to Stick to Your New Year’s Resolutions (Even When Motivation Fades)
It’s the start of a new year, and for many of us, that means setting resolutions. Maybe it’s eating healthier, exercising more, improving finances, or simply taking more time for self-care.
Reflecting on the Year: 10 Questions to Wrap Up 2024
Reflection is a powerful tool for growth—it helps us celebrate our wins, acknowledge our challenges, and set intentions for the future.