Have you ever found yourself wondering: How do I stay true to who I am without drifting apart from my partner? It’s a question I hear all the time—and for good reason.

You don’t need to be in a relationship to be doing the work of love. If you’ve ever felt like you lose yourself in love—or keep love at arm’s length to protect your independence—this post is for you.

If you’re not into New Year’s resolutions… same. They can feel like pressure wrapped in good intentions. Like there’s something broken we need to fix or something better we should be chasing.

Yep, the relationship therapist is divorced. It surprises some people when I share that, but to be honest, I think it’s part of what makes me better at what I do.

If you’re wondering how to stay connected during the holidays, you’re not alone—and the good news is, a few small shifts can go a long way in bringing you closer together.

Not everyone deals with conflict by pointing the finger at their partner. Some people quietly turn that finger inward. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

Blame doesn’t always show up loudly. Sometimes it’s dressed up as “constructive criticism.” Sometimes it hides in the tone, the timing, or the words we use when we’re trying to make a point.

Have you ever noticed how some people seem to crave closeness in relationships, while others keep a little more distance?

It’s such a familiar scene: you and your partner are in the middle of an argument, and suddenly, the whole conversation shifts into proving who’s right.

I’m so excited to share something new with you—I’ve officially launched a YouTube channel: Couples with Kathleen.

It’s easy to lose yourself in a relationship—not because you’re weak or co-dependent, but because life has a way of pulling your attention outward.

I often see partners struggling not because they don’t love each other, but because they’ve fallen into patterns that quietly erode connection over time.

It usually doesn’t happen all at once. There’s no big blow-up. No dramatic betrayal. Just… a quiet drift. You go from late-night conversations to texting logistics.

In strong relationships, cherishing your partner isn’t just something that happens naturally—it’s something you choose to do.

We use the word all the time—to cherish a memory, a gift, a moment. But when it comes to relationships, cherishing isn't just a warm, fuzzy feeling.

Ever find yourself reacting in a way that feels bigger than the moment? Maybe your partner forgets to text, and suddenly you're spiraling into feelings of rejection.

How often do you feel like you’re having the same argument in your relationship, even if the topic changes each time? If your answer is “most of the time” or even “always,” you’re not alone.

Blame is tempting. It gives us the illusion of control without actually requiring us to look inward. But here’s the hard truth: blame is a losing strategy in relationships.

When we feel stuck in relationship struggles, it’s easy to zero in on what our partner is doing wrong—or not doing at all.

We’re thrilled to welcome Sharon Nolan to our team as our new Client Care Coordinator!